from Touchstones
We cannot avoid Using power, Cannot escape the compulsion To afflict the world, So let us, cautious in diction And mighty in contradiction, Love powerfully. — Martin Buber
Men’s use and misuse of power gives us much to weep over and much to admire. In our own families, we see how our parents fought over power, how they used it both wisely and abusively. Our problems with power and control are a central part of our addictions and codependency. Admitting our powerlessness has started us toward recovery. Admitting our power will help carry us further.
No one is innocent beyond childhood. We affect the people around us, and it matters how we treat them. We cannot come and go unnoticed. Since we will make an impact, we learn to treat ourselves and the people around us with respect and justice. Our only solution is to learn to love and be loved.
Today, I will be more aware of the power I have in others’ lives.
From Answers in the Heart
The world was always yours; you would not take it. — Archibald MacLeish
It’s possible during a difficult time to become sidetracked in self-pity, anxiety, anger, or fear. It can be easier to do that than to look honestly at our responsibilities today. When we feel ourselves spiraling down, possibly into our addiction to sex, it’s time to ask some hard questions.
What will I choose today? Am I willing to take care of myself before I take care of anyone or anything else? Is there a Step I can work, something I can do to stay connected to my recovery program?
The answers are within us. We have infinite inner resources and potential. We have people to whom we can reach out. We have our Higher Power, and we have a commitment to ourselves. Through all of these, we will find the hope and encouragement we need, just for today.
I may feel like I’m swimming against the tide, and that’s all right. All I have to do is my best.
Daily Meditation Books
Answers in the Heart - daily meditations for people recovering from sex addiction
Touchstones - daily meditations for recovering men
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